Yuval Noah Harari
Author of 'Sapiens'

I hope this important book sparks a conversation rather than a cancellation. While many of the book’s ideas are controversial, it is high time the LGBT community holds an open discussion about its core values and political strategies

Stephen Fry

What a fabulously timely book. So well researched, and argued. The gay world has to be ready for the coming fight. It is hard to doubt that much of what has been achieved in a lifetime (mine for example!) is threatened by a new tsunami of authoritarian, fundamentalist Rightists in whose crosshairs we have been for some time now. McCrea lays out a highly convincing wake up call for the whole LGBTQI community. Queer or ally, I urge you to read it.

Jonathan Rauch
Senior Fellow at the Brookings Institution, author of 'The Constitution of Knowledge: A Defense of Truth' and 'Gay Marriage: Why It Is Good for Gays, Good for Straights and Good for America' among other books

Did the movement for gay equality overreach by embracing freedom without responsibility? Did it induce a backlash by mortgaging itself to an alphabet soup of radical causes? Ronan McCrea’s manifesto for moderation is sure to be controversial—and, for just that reason, deserves attention and debate.

Mary McAleese
Lawyer and former President of Ireland

Ronan McCrea poses questions from the heart, urgent questions designed to help secure a safe and egalitarian future for all gay people, for though there has been welcome progress there is visible, audible push back. The stomach churning awfulness of the opening story of his savage public humiliation at age thirteen will never leave you. Nor should it. The future has to be homophobia free and this book will play a significant role in ensuring it is.

Yascha Mounk
Author of 'The Identity Trap: A Story of Ideas and Power in Our Time'

A thoughtful and timely reckoning with the triumphs and vulnerabilities of the gay rights revolution. Lucid and provocative, Ronan McCrea shows how far we’ve come—and how easily it could all unravel.

Barry Schwartz
Emeritus professor at Swarthmore College, author of 'The Paradox of Choice' and co-author of 'Practical Wisdom', among other books

Ronan McCrea has written a brilliantly argued book that mixes pragmatism and principle seamlessly. He shows that standing up for unlimited personal freedom is perilous in practice and unwise in principle, and that such a stance does not even serve the well-being of those who argue for it. His focus is on gay rights, but the lessons he offers apply across many areas of our collective social, cultural, and political lives. People engaged in the struggle for personal liberation should pay close attention.

Leo Varadkar
First openly-gay Taoiseach (Prime Minister) of Ireland

This timely book asks challenging questions of the gay rights movement. Whether we agree or disagree, all members of the LGBTI+ community and our allies need to consider the author’s analysis.

Sonia Sodha
columnist and broadcaster

This is a fascinating and thought-provoking book. Ronan McCrea never shies away from challenging readers to reconsider their assumptions, and setting out some difficult realities for the gay rights movement as well as charting the extraordinary progress it has made in a few short decades. In making the case that progress is not irreversible – and indeed, is today at risk – and that this is a product not just of external conservative forces, but internal tensions within the gay community, this book has important insights and implications not just for gay rights but for all civil rights movements as they mature and confront the need to consolidate their early wins.